Dr. Maya Angelou: Gather Together in HER Name

maya angelou photo from web
“When you hear someone like Dr. Maya Angelou passed away, you have to deal with the fact that one day, you will die too. It’s that simple. If Maya can die, it’s done. You have to face your own mortality. You are reminded that no matter what you do; no matter how much you contribute to society; no matter how passionately you love or hate or fight for justice and all that, at the end, you and I are  the same. We live.  And then we die. But I still think it’s too bad that Dr. Maya Angelou had to. . .”

Die.

He didn’t say that word. Dr. Maya Angelou would never do that to us. She is formidable. She was phenomenal. Just. Plain. Phenomenal. Although I had done most of my ‘growing up’ before coming to the U.S., I feel like I grew up with this once-caged bird. She was a pioneer. The beginning (and the end) of a movement. Dr. Maya Angelou was majestic. Tall. Fierce. Her voice was like thunder at times and it would drop to a whisper. Soft but never fragile. “I got my doctorate the old-fashioned way,” I heard her say once. “I eeeeaaarrrnneedd it!” Dr. Maya Angelou earned the respect and love of millions worldwide. They say you don’t get to take anything with you to the other side. I pray she knew how much she was loved by people everywhere.

Leonie Hermantin PhotoLeonie Hermantin said:

“Hard to put into words what Maya Angelou has meant to me since I have ‘consulted’ her Doctor Highness at so many stages, ‘etapes’ of my life. “As a tall, insecure Haitian, Black female immigrant teen, she taught me that being the ‘other’ was OK! She was a seasoned traveler who refused to accept the limitations of racial and cultural boundaries… She dared to defy, to explore and to redefine her reality! I consulted the Doctor sister again as a mother and more recently as I began this journey of middle agedom, I reread Mamma Angelou’s old poems, devoured essays found online and connected spiritually with the wise elder healer she had become. I have never met her, but did not really need to. Phenomenal, phenomenally phenomenal woman, I am, in your image Maya Mamma Angelou! -Leonie Hermantin

 

irmina ulysseThe Maya in our Hearts ~ Irmina Ulysse

News of Dr. Maya Angelou’s passing brought with it some sadness which was quickly burned away by a fire inside me that her courageous words help fuel so many moons ago.  Like many of her fans, I am full of gratitude and joy for having witnessed and benefited from a life well gifted and lived.  A soul’s purpose delivered fully and unabashedly.  In Hindu, Maya can be expressed as the power that manifest the universe and creates the appearance of our phenomenal world. That power is love and love is in our hearts. Maya Angela is in our hearts and there she will live forever. She helped to manifest a universe where women could be proud of their unique hips and lips. Where women can dare to show all of their “stuff” even if we couldn’t name it, we could claim it. I am grateful for she taught so many of us how to see ourselves in our own eyes and make no apology for it. She was living poetry. While her experiences as a child and young woman would have crippled many, she showed us through courage, self determination, and self actualization we can all live with purpose. I am eternally grateful for this true Queen Mother, a living Maya that will remain eternally in our hearts. – Irmina Ulysse

yanick etienne“She’s a woman Strong like a rock Our symbol of freedom and humility Her voice echoes the suffering of all oppressed and poor The light that shines on you comes from her heart. Maya, Goddess of Love.” -Yanick Etienne

phippsFrom  poet and painter, Marilène Phipps-Kettlewell

“The bird has left her cage, but no matter–her wings are larger now, and still, in spite of the distance, her singing will never cease to be heard, and move us.”

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“Elemental Mother” by Martine Vassor

Catherine Flon is depicted here sewing the first Haitian Flag

She birthed me first.VoicesfromHaiti Hummingbird

Did I birth her?

                                                 

 

Why was I ripped from her?

She birthed me first.

Did I birth her?

   Haitian Flag                                                                                                             I am

connected

to

her

energy.

I hated leaving

Though the ones who crowned me queen

wanted to hang me like Anacaona,

Queen of Jaragua Maguana of the island “Ayiti”

haitian flagQuisqueya Boyo

Silently you conspired

to

save me

Time for me to leave

A covenant signed

three

rivers

deep

Mount Calvary high since

Genesis

The roots numerous, strong,

deep

When the thing hit and left you wounded

A leg caught half a step between life and death

Arms stuck out of the rubble

Reaching out to children near and far

Your sufferings had surpassed you

I heard

your call from some place deep

 

Icatherine_flon haitian flag day (1)t was time to come home

A covenant signed in Leogane

The noose was parchment

Your tears were like ink

 

Still, your resilient spirit transformed

the tsunami of despair into rays of hope

And like the golden flame from the central sun

The light in your eyes will shine again

Your branches will sprout even more beauteously

 

Golden Flower

The pearl of the Antilles

Ayiti Quisqueya Boyo . . .

                                                              I am

connected

to

her

energy.

I hated leaving

Though the ones who crowned me queen

wanted to hang me like Anacaona,

Queen of Jaragua Maguana of the island “Ayiti”

Quisqueya Boyo

 

Silently you

conspired to

save me

Time for me to leave

A covenant signed

three

rivers

deep

Mount Calvary high

since Genesis

The roots numerous, strong,

deep

When the thing hit and left you

wounded

A leg caught half a step between

life

and

death

Arms stuck out of the rubble

Reaching out to children

 

Your sufferings had surpassed you

I heard

your call from some place deep

Time to come home

A covenant signed in Leogane

Parchment noose

Your tears were like ink

 

Still, your resilient spirit transformed

the tsunami of despair into rays of hope

And like the golden flame from the central sun

The light in your eyes will shine again

Your branches will sprout even more beauteously

 

Golden Flower

The pearl of the Antilles

Ayiti Quisqueya Boyo . . .

Mother’s Day Acceptance Speech

New Day Photo by Katia UlysseIt’s that time again.

Countless moms will receive the obligatory Annual Mother’s Day Trophy: breakfast, flowers, no-laundry day pass . . .

All week I tried to write a thoughtful Mother’s Day Acceptance Speech for the trophy I would receive. I could not think of one word.

Today, while most everyone showers the moms on their roster with cards, pearls, chocolate, diamonds, I won’t get any. No bouquets of pink roses. Nothing. I’m more of a Bearded Iris type, anyway. I like the golden and the dark blue. If you can’t find those, I’ll take white peonies. Lots of them.

Katia-Phone.jpgMy husband knows me better than anyone. This is why he doesn’t buy me flowers. The man figured out–a long time ago–that since finding bearded irises and peonies on Mother’s Day might be a little challenging, he gave me garden. Now, when it comes to receiving flowers from my husband on Mother’s Day, my cup kind of runneth over. No complaints from me.

mangoI won’t get that special Mother’s Day brunch either. My husband knows I’m not big on restaurants. I’m a sit in the kitchen with my family kind of person. So, for breakfast, he presented me with a silver-like tray heaped with homegrown mangoes!  He knows I won’t stop eating until my entire body is good and sticky with mango juice. Color me thrilled.

No roses. No special meal. But I still managed to come up with a decent Acceptance Speech. Check it out:

PititfiFirst and foremost, I’d like to think my Lord and Savior for . . . for everything.

Second and secondmost–is that a word? Don’t know. So, I’d like to thank my Husband, James, for giving me the extreme pleasure of becoming a mother nine years ago. He did this with equal part grace and stregth.  Long after the deed was done, he stood in that delivery room, misty-eyed but steady on his legs.  When he saw our little miracle, he did not faint.  He’s not the fainting type.

OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAThird and thirdmost, I’d like to thank our fantabulous babygirl for coming to us. Without her, I’d still be dreaming about what it’s like to be a mama.

I’m the one who will bring bouquets of flowers into the house today: One for my man–even though he never lifts a finger to help me weed the flower beds. But that’s another story. Another bouquet is for myself. (I spend so much time in those flower beds, I deserve to enjoy them once in a while).

Our daughter loves flowers, but I won’t bring a bouquet to her today. Once I figured out why my husband gave me those gardens, I passed one on to our girl. Whenever she feels like surrounding herself with tulips, irises, roses, lilies, she can select from her own garden.  Of course, I’m the one who spends hours planting seeds and weeding her garden.  But that’s another story. That’s what this mom is for.


Happy Mother’s Day to all moms everywhere!

#BRING BACK OUR GIRLS